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After talking to a friend who had a totally random event happen for the second time in their life, a pattern started to emerge that may have seemed a coincidence but was it really?

With concepts like the “the universe” and books like “The Secret” creating some consciousness about the “Laws of attraction” and projecting energy and thoughts, the events that happened to my friend may make some sense.

About 6 months ago, my friend was riding home from work innocently, minding his own business in the late afternoon, the sun was setting on the horizon when “BANG”, a motorist blinded by the glare, lost his view momentarily and not wanting to miss the lights speed up to make a right turn in front of my friend.

The results were a broken collar bone which will require surgery after not showing any improvement in healing naturally.
Well last week, it happened again, while being safely away from the traffic in his house, a totally random event happened, a motorist had a heart attack after returning from the local leisure centre (doing morning laps in the pool) and veared of the road into my friends parked car outside his house.

This time though although there was damage to his car, absolutely no damage to his body.

Mmmmm, so a random event or maybe there is a hidden meaning, it’s open to interpretation but maybe it was something about what thoughts were being projected at the time or over a period of time.
Personally I find this random event super positive, it means that what was ever being projected that had resulted in the body being directly impacted has know lowered in intensity.
My friend may have been walking to his car, been in the car or entering the main flow of traffic, so many possibilities.

While it’s still annoying and inconvenient (And horrific for the driver), it means having to get quotes for the car repair, contacting the insurance companies, getting the car repaired and being without a car while being repaired.
Ironically when I quizzed him about it, this year has had numerous things go wrong with these 2 events just being one of many.

The point being is what ever you want to achieve, whether it’s weight loss, getting more balance in your life between work and life or improving your health and fitness in general, you will keep throwing up these random events that make it difficult to achieve your goals.

Think about people you may know who are going through a financially difficult time, about to lose the house, car, job, no money in the bank then suddenly a random event, the car engine blows up, a fraudulent credit card transaction, the washing machine dies, all these events are really the end results of what is being projected and ultimately what ever you project you attract back into your life.

Well something to think about:)))

This morning while chatting amongst friends, I heard about a guy who after winning a major regional cycling race last year decided to concentrate on another major race that was being run recently.

Most of this year was focused on winning the last event with the last 2 months purely dedicated to extremely highly intensive training with minimal rest if no rest at all. This event consumed his life and I imagine having a demanding work life family may have been compromised.

Remember every action has an reaction or as my good friend says “Something has to give” While it is great to have goals, you have to look at the outcome verses what the effects are for the over slices in the pie or cheese cake (I like cheese cake).

Well within the cheese cake are various parts or slices that comprise of your life: family, friends, health, physical, psychological, mental and spiritual.
Ultimately life is about getting all these segments into balance, while each segment will vary in size throughout your life, it’s about getting them roughly equally weighted.
You may say well that person with the 100 meter motor yacht, apartment on 5th Ave, holiday homes in the Bahamas must be happy, well have a look at the other segments and see how they are tracking.

We live in the most or should I say we did the most prosperous generation on record with the personal wealth of society far greater than our parents and grand parents yet levels of depression are growing every year and numerous studies regarding people’s happiness over the past 50 years indicated a down ward spiral.
So have a look at your goals and where they fit into the cheese cake. Ultimately we need to have a balance in out life.