Where do you want to be?
We all have goals, things we want to achieve and places we want to get to, but the path can be riddled with potholes and detours.
We are all habit driven. Good or bad they help determine how we live. Everyday, morning and night, we brush our teeth. We were not born to brush our teeth, yet after much conditioning and much protest eventually we perform this ritual without complaint, we just do it.
However, if habits good or bad go unchallenged they can continue indefinitely. There are often underlying reasons why we perform these habits so they have become part of our belief system. That is, some programming of our brains has occurred during our childhood that has been reinforced in adult life.
When we are born we start with a clean slate, we do not understand the fear of spiders, of high places or public speaking, we learn this behaviour as children.
Our minds are like a field of wheat. The first time we have an emotional response to a situation we walk through the virgin crop of waist high wheat. There are no markers, nothing to define which way we should proceed to get to the other side so we take the line of least resistance.
The next time we are in the same or similar situation, chances are we will use the same pathway. Over a period of time it becomes well defined, and may even have rocks defining the outline of the path. This can become a belief you hold, with the pathway representing your behaviour and emotional response to that situation.
For years it was believed that the four minute mile (1609 meters) could not be broken due to the limitations of the human body. That was until the 1950s when Britain's Roger Bannister finally did it. Remarkably, only 46 days later an Australian, John Landy, broke the record again and it has been tumbling ever since.
Before you go to bed try visualising yourself overcoming the barriers you have in place through your belief system. For example, that you can control what you eat and that good things happen to you no matter how small.
Having only ever made a small recording in the 1990s, Susan's spirit lifted her to another place. She confronted her fears and broke her own four minute mile. You can too:))).
Andrew Talati
Fitstyler
50 Cobden St, North Melbourne,
03 9329 3888
www.fitstyler.com.au